What did you learn?
Despite whether your weekend was busy or quiet, fair or unfair, fruitful or not so much, full of divine timing or near misses, good banter or strange customers. At the end of the day, there is only one real question. What did you learn over the weekend? There are so many good lessons in all of our experiences and that means nothing is ever a waste or a bad experience. The more we ask ourselves these important questions, the more we train ourselves to enquire within and teach ourselves along the way; what it is we need to learn. These lessons all come with divine timing, when we are ready for them whether we like it or not. These lessons are both good and bad! Maybe we need to learn to trust ourselves more, or to be proud of ourselves, maybe we need to learn how we come across and make others feel. They can literally be anything! Of all of the lessons I learnt this weekend, I will take the time today, to digest what they are. But the standout one for me is gratitude ❤️ for all of the fantastic people I worked with and met over the weekend. Take the time to enquirer within and see what you find
Remember your why!
Having your intention centred within you can give you unimaginable strength. Remember why you are doing what you are doing. Whether it be a long-term goal, short term goal, specific item or certain achievement you would like to reach. In those hard moments, remember WHY you are doing what you are doing. I find reminding myself of my goals can keep me motivated, determined and focused. From that I find the ability to push through even when I feel like giving up! This one mindset practice can help with difficult nights, times when you lack motivation, saving money and even at the gym!! . What are your whys?
Are you ok? A simple question, which can mean a lot!
I was only talking today to somebody the importance of making sure we focus on giving the best experience possible. We don’t know what people are going through and a lot of guests who come into strip clubs could potentially be very lonely. It doesn’t take much to make people feel special, or give our full attention and listen. Sometimes that’s all anyone needs. Today be aware and make it your mission to brighten someone’s day, because you probably will! I have had 2 customers in the past come back to tell me they felt very on edge (I don’t want to think more into just how dark they were feeling) and I helped them. They told me that, if it weren’t for having fun on whatever particular night we did, they wouldn’t be here today. Now that’s pretty heavy and I had no idea at the time just how they felt and just how giving someone care and an ear and a laugh could change their world. A lot of us may never know just how much we may brighten someone’s day! So always treat people like they matter and strive to help them feel a little more ok than before you met them ❤️
Why?
I’ve been asked a number of times now, why create stripology? First of all, my background is science. I studied biotechnology and worked specifically as a genetic analyst. I also get super interested in hustling and mindset. In combination, I really enjoy analysing situations, people’s behaviour, interactions, our internal environment and most things really. I think it’s the combination of science and stripping that has led me to study further down this path, and create stripology. I started to realise, top earners all physically look different so there is much more to the hustle than meets the eye. After a couple of years of really playing with what works and what doesn’t, reading people, taking note of what people respond to and generally consciously polishing my hustle, I found a lot of friends and colleges began to ask for tips and support. I found with a little support and a few tips, earnings would increase for them by, well....... a lot! There is nothing to fear in helping one another, it does not bring about scarcity for others, it attracts more positive experience for all and therefore attracts more abundance for all! Stripping is my passion, hustle is my fascination and giving to others is my journey!
Sacred geometry
I like to wear this piece (Metatron) sometimes as it has the energies of manifestation, femininity and protection. I think these are all super important to connect with whilst stripping. I recently bought this piece in ubud whilst doing my yoga and meditation accreditation which taught me so much that I am able to apply in everyday life! We all have energetic bodies and it is important to be open and to offer your energy to someone as, at the end of the day, how you make someone feel is what they will remember deep down. However it is super important to also have boundaries to protect yourself, which I had to learn about, as that has been something that didn’t come naturally to me. There is a lot of energy exchange in the club, whether it be a customer who is wanting to vent or put you down in order to make themselves feel better or whether it’s you opening your heart to someone who is down and needs support or simply someone who is feeding off your energy without you even being aware, and so many more different situations. The possibilities are endless and there are certain ways to protect yourself, for example symbolism, meditation, visualisation and grounding yourself to the stability and support of the earth telluric energy, smudging and many more. It is important to create boundaries for your energetic body, disconnect after work and protect yourself energetically in such an energy rich environment! What do you do to protect your energetic body? Xx
Pushing boundaries
What I’m talking about is your own boundaries. One of my favourite things I love about our work is the people you meet as well as some of the crazy situations, conversations and locations you end up in! If you are judging people even before you meet them, you are closing doors. Most people have something to share that you can learn from......... and earn from! If you stay in your own comfort zone and are scared to step out, you miss out! Your life could be the same from 2015-2025 without you even realising it! Here is a saying I ❤️❤️❤️❤️ absolutely love! ⭐️ All the magic happens outside your comfort zone ⭐️ Push yourself!
If you learn along the way, every failure will bear the gift of success.
Turn that lead into gold! If things are going south, ask yourself what the lesson is? It may not come to you right away but there is always a lesson and for that we are truly blessed. We are given the opportunity to grow, to learn and to expand on ourselves. Nothing worth having comes to us easily or we may not appreciate the true value, and if it does then the path was already paved without us even being aware! Happy hustling everyone think about what your gifts are even if you have just been experiencing some shit ❤️
Fortune favours the bold!
I loved this quote from bohemian rhapsody! As I feel it’s so true. I am naturally a little anxious, overthink and at times far too serious. When it comes to work, there’s no time for that on the outside! You may be left unnoticed if you don’t get bold, put yourself out there, approach people, look fabulous, smile, and be that amazing go getter that is somewhere in your personality. Even if it isn’t full time.
The small pieces make the big picture.
With training I get asked a large range of questions around hustling. Lots are repeated, some are totally unique and left field. . There is no magic pill. There is no one liner, there is no one look and there is no huge secret when it comes to hustling. It is in fact a series of lots of little things we can do and all put together they form a beautiful puzzle which, together, form a bigger picture and together work towards increasing your chances of a dance. This begins with being aware. So, it is no longer guess work and luck, you can be more in control of your outcomes. By having more tools in your belt and more awareness. Aware from the minute you hit the floor. Aware of the impression you give off. Aware of the way you make other people feel. Aware of how you allow the conversation to flow. Aware of your vibe, your energy, your self-talk, your impact on others. Etc, the list of what is important to be aware of goes on. Another point to be aware of is, people don’t remember what you say they remember the way you made them feel. That also applies to yourself, we can affect the way we feel due to what we are saying to ourselves. There are many pieces to the puzzle of hustling well. It’s not just a little afternoon activity 120-piece puzzle! It’s a highly complex but fun and exciting puzzle with the most amazing art on it. Who knows how many pieces there really are, as the brain works it’s absolute hardest when we first meet a new person! That is what lights up the brain the most when we meet someone new and we do it all night every night! I believe it’s an infinity piece puzzle, so really when you start to look into that fact, it opens up a whole world of learning, searching and discovering more about yourself and the way you interact with others
“In life, when you strip back all the layers, the answer to everything is love! In a Strip Club, when you strip back all the layers, the answer to everything is Vagina!” -Stripology.
Limitations!
What is holding you back? What is your obstacle or limitation? Really think about what is answered for this next question: I would be AMAZING at my job if............ What is THE FIRST THING THAT COMES TO MIND? There’s your answer to what you need to work on/ let go of! The unconscious mind always knows, trust it! Even if you aren’t consciously aware of where you may need to focus on. Trust what first popped into your mind. What is holding you back? ❤️
Don’t act starving!
My analogy for this topic is going to the beach to have a nice picnic.
Nice idea, you get ready, you meet your friends and bam your hit with a bunch of seemingly starving seagulls. It’s fun to feed the birds, when they approach you in a way that compels you to throw them a chip. It’s fun watching them enjoy it. Sometimes this comes up in the club, when you feel you’re not doing well and you see others are or when you feel like you’ve had a bunch of no’s and frustration kicks in. It’s so important to not fall into the taking, starving mentality, get get get! Your energy will show that’s what your intent is, even if you don’t say it. The best way to stay above this is gratitude! You will never have a bad night if you keep your mind on gratitude, really feel it. Gratitude can be practiced. I have started a practice where I set an alarm each day, to stop and really feel gratitude for whatever comes up. Let’s spread this energy!
“A yawn is contagious, but ain’t nobody got time for that! A smile is magnetic”- Stripology.